...when you are able to identify, accept, choose, and maintain a relationship with a loving, real, kind, capable, value-aligned person who wants what you want and shares a real life with you.
After creating secure attachment, real love with self and others, and maintaining healthy, loving boundaries to stay aligned with your highest good.
Not surprisingly, after painful love, this can feel impossible, terrifying, and WORSE!
You may believe it's too late for you now and that you'll be left to spend your life alone.
These beliefs are simply Inner Painful Love Codes—deep-seated, subconscious programs stemming from unhealed trauma—and Insecure Attachment Wounds, which are emotional injuries that disrupt your ability to trust and connect authentically.
Just because you haven’t gotten love right, doesn’t mean that you are unlovable, unworthy, or defective!
And... you haven’t yet tapped into the TECHNIQUES that truly generate REAL love—the kind of love that is safe, fulfilling, and aligned with your true self.
Healing these inner wounds and reprogramming your beliefs can open the door to the love you deserve. It's never too late!
*Please note if you can’t make the sessions live, you will receive the recording and all Course materials.
*Find the Starting Date in Your Local Time Zone HERE
The Bootcamp begins February 25th and runs until April 1st, 2024, in the Pacific Standard Time Zone. Mark these dates on your calendar and get ready to embrace this transformative journey.
*Please note if you can’t make the sessions live, you will receive the recording and all Course materials.
Please know I used to be terrible at "love"!
I didn’t understand who I needed to be to create true, healthy love. The results were heartbreaking—spending years alone or relationships with people who didn’t share my values, trying to change them into someone who did.
I was triggered, derailed, handing my power away constantly.
Then after narcissistic abuse, I was shattered and broken and terrified to date again.
There were healthy people interested in me, but I couldn’t muster any attraction for them. Why? Because my Inner Love Code was unhealed.
When I reprogrammed who I was attracted to and stopped engaging in my previous unhealthy relationship patterns, good men stepped forward to value me beautifully and narcissists were repelled.
I LOVED dating!
Now, I live my life alongside my partner, Glenn who grows with and supports the true me. Together, we’ve navigated boundaries and challenges that often arise when two people with different attachment styles—and previous narcissistic abuse wounds—come together.
This is so crucial to navigate healthily, for those of us who’ve experienced narcissistic abuse in childhood or adult relationships —to create love and our BEST life after abuse!
Welcome To
Defining and “ordering” your Soul Mate in a way that goes way beyond physical characteristics and interests – in a way that matches up the soul who is seeking you as much as you are seeking them.
· Soul Mate Intention
· Foundational Relationship Traits
· Non-Negotiable Personal Values
· Non-negotiable and Negotiable Physical and Material Desires
· Your Soul Mate Creation List
· Quanta Freedom Healing – Releasing Your Soul Mate Creation Blocks
This is about the Quantum aligning of you to be the match for the person who will love you, as the soul, individual, valuable being who you are. This is what true love is all about and stops you matching up with a false self.
· True Love Intention
· Examining Your Attachment Style
· The Partners Your Attachment Style Has Attracted
· Establishing Yourself as An Individual to be Seen and Loved
· Opening up to Receive True Love
· Quanta Freedom Healing – Releasing Your Be-coming True Love Blocks
Here we identify the painful programs specific to love, we release and reprogram them to open up a whole new trajectory of potential love partners who are a match for your highest and best love match!
· Love Code Intention
· Identifying Your Painful Love Code Patterns
· Changing Your Painful Love Code
· The Steps To Create Your Dating Profile
· Writing Your Dating Profile
· Healthy Dating Rules
· Quanta Freedom Healing – Releasing Love Code and Dating Blocks
This is all about how to be “seen”, “met” and “loved”. You will learn about WHY people will fall in love with you, honour and cherish you and how to BE the person who IS genuinely loved.
· Authentic Love Intention
· Why Real People Are Really In Love
· Showing Up Authentically
· Laying Authentic Dating Boundaries
· Dating Exclusivity Protocol
· Quanta Freedom Healing – Releasing Authentic Love Blocks
There are incredibly effective and empowered ways to date safely without putting yourself at risk with anything at all – including narcissists. Once you get this right I can’t tell you how much joy, fun and growth you can have with dating, without feeling any fear.
· Safety and Power Love Intention
· The Truth About Dating Experiences
· Dating Self-sabotage
· Healthy, Safe Love - Male and Female DNA
· Identifying Healthy People
· Quanta Freedom Healing – Releasing Safety and Power in Dating Blocks
There is a "lid" for your "pot", no matter how diverse, quirky or individual you are! This is a person aligned with your values, who wants what you want and accepts you as you are.
· Meeting Your Soul Mate Intention
· Up-levelling Your Potential Soul Mates
· Choosing Potential Soul Mates
· "Trying On" a Soul Mate
· Setting Boundaries With Your Soul Mate
· Quanta Freedom Healing – Releasing The Meeting Your Soul Mate Blocks
· Your Soul Mate Creation Mantra
"After two devastating divorces, I needed help! Dating Bootcamp unearthed my unhealed traumas caused my feelings of inner emptiness, wanting to be rescued, and attracting controlling men. In this course, I addressed this, my fear of being alone, wanting approval, and so much more. I now have a happy life with friends, family, travel, my work, and improved health! I am "dating myself". I am open to dating others, whilst honouring myself. I recently said “no” to someone not right for me, without fear, pain or loss! This is HUGE for me! I am forever grateful to Mel and her healings! "
- Dr. Karen Shewmaker, USA
"Dating Bootcamp with Melanie was the most inspiring and joyful online dating workshop ever! Full of valuable and insightful teachings for us and the healing shifts we did together were absolutely life-changing. I now know what to look for in a soulmate love relationship and how to really love and honour myself while dating. Melanie makes this such fun and so relatable. I highly recommend her wisdom and amazing healing sessions. I know now, that I can have my heart open, whilst choosing real, safe, honest love healthily."
- Angelika, Germany
"The knowledge I acquired from Dating Bootcamp has helped me to prioritize my wants and needs by self-partnering. This has made a world of difference from my past dating experience. Now, if my gut says something isn't right, I listen to it and take action. I have never had this kind of confidence before. This is huge for me. Dating Boot Camp has given me the magic of hope and the confidence to make better choices. I highly recommend this for anyone overcoming painful relationships. I am out there on the dating scene now and I know that I will find my true, abuse free and real love that I deserve."
- Angela, USA
"Melanie’s 6 weeks Dating Boot Camp was a huge eye-opener for me on the topic of love and relationships. It is a comprehensive, treasure trove on how to reprogram our faulty love code and so worth the investment. After working the program, I know I have up-levelled my old love code. It is that powerful. To me, the Dating Bootcamp is truly one of the best programs Melanie has done. I fell in love with my true Self. I am so happy being with myself and Being myself. I am enjoying my life in an expansive, loving and fulfilling way. I am mating my own soul and loving it. I no longer accept a level of love less than the level of love I now have for myself."
- Vollie, USA
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WHAT IF I HAVE NEVER ACTIVELY TRIED TO DATE BEFORE?
HOW DO I KNOW IF I'M READY TO START DATING AND IF THE QUANTUM DATING BOOTCAMP IS SUITABLE FOR ME?
What time are the Bootcamp sessions and what happens if I can’t make it to all of them?
WHAT IF I’M NOT SURE I EVEN WANT TO CREATE LOVE? IS THIS BOOTCAMP STILL RIGHT FOR ME?
HOW DO I KNOW IF I'M READY TO START DATING AND IF THE QUANTUM DATING BOOTCAMP IS SUITABLE FOR ME?
You are already committed to your inner work and becoming your own Source. You no longer want a “saviour” to complete you or to rescue your life. Instead, you are ready to break free from old patterns and disappointments—once and for all.
You want more confidence and the ability to navigate relationships with calmness, clarity, and strength. You are inspired to master love in every aspect of your life—whether you are actively dating or not.
This is about becoming the person who can identify, create, and share a healthy, fulfilling life with another authentic soul who values and wants true love—just like you do.
What time are the Bootcamp sessions and what happens if I can’t make it to all of them?
The Bootcamp sessions are scheduled to allow the best accessibility for our global audience. You can find the starting time of the Bootcamp in your time zone by clicking HERE. There's no need to worry if you miss a session because each week's bootcamp will be recorded and saved in your course area. You will also have life-time access to the material to go back to as many times as you wish.
WHAT IF I HAVE NEVER ACTIVELY TRIED TO DATE BEFORE?
Feeling nervous about dating—whether online or in person—is completely normal, especially if fear of rejection or past experiences have held you back.
The truth is, good and bad people exist everywhere, but with the right inner realizations, shifts, tools and mindset, you can date confidently and safely. By setting clear boundaries and learning to spot red flags, you’ll feel empowered to connect authentically and easily filter out the wrong matches.
You don’t have to start dating until you’re ready, and when you do, dating can become an exciting and enjoyable part of your journey toward meaningful connections.
WHAT IF I’M NOT SURE I EVEN WANT TO CREATE LOVE? IS THIS BOOTCAMP STILL RIGHT FOR ME?
Absolutely! The Quantum Dating Bootcamp is not just about finding romantic love—it’s about transforming how you connect and engage in all areas of your life. This bootcamp will empower you to cultivate deeper, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships, whether they are with friends, family, colleagues, or even yourself.
If, one day, you do meet someone you’re attracted to, you’ll have the tools, wisdom, and confidence to gauge, interact, and navigate the potential (or lack thereof) of any relationship safely and powerfully.
These life skills go beyond dating—they ensure you’re never hurt or exploited again and grant you the ability to create relationships from a place of strength, authenticity, and alignment. Most importantly, they offer you the greatest possibility of true, lasting love, whether it’s romantic or in other meaningful forms.
Even if you’re not actively looking for love, these tools are invaluable for living a more empowered, connected, and love-filled life.
Melanie Tonia Evans is a global expert in personal transformation, and thriving after heartbreak. She is the creator of the revolutionary Quanta Freedom Healing™, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program™, and Shifts Happen, which have helped people worldwide not just heal from toxic relationships but truly thrive in every area of their lives.
Through her leading-edge Quantum tools and methods, Melanie has guided thousands to release deep inner wounds, break free from old patterns of painful love, and unlock their true potential. Her groundbreaking approaches have touched over 15 million lives in more than 150 countries, and her work is endorsed by doctors, psychologists, therapists, and renowned relationship experts globally.
Melanie's personal journey from tragic, painful love to thriving as her most authentic self fuels her mission to help others. Not only did she heal and create a fulfilling life, but she also transformed her experiences into a loving passion and purpose that inspires people to achieve their own thriving state.
In 2018, Melanie’s first book, You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse – The #1 System for Recovering from Toxic Relationships, became an Amazon bestseller in days and is now translated into multiple languages.
With a background in kinesiology and energy healing, Melanie was awarded the 2019 Personality of the Year by Kindred Spirit. She remains a devoted Quantum student of life, continually discovering ways to help others release false beliefs and traumas, and step into a higher vibration of love and personal empowerment.
Melanie’s work goes beyond conventional healing to create real, lasting transformation. By embracing Quantum mechanics, self-partnering, and ascension principles, she empowers her global community to embody true self-love and create thriving relationships—with themselves and others.
Her teachings inspire a paradigm shift from merely surviving to thriving, making Melanie a true pioneer in love, healing, and the journey to a life of authentic joy and connection.