"At 34 years of age I found myself in an emotionally and sexually abusive relationship with my boyfriend.

When I met him I thought this was the person I had always been waiting for, I couldn’t believe my luck!

Three months into the relationship I became unexpectedly pregnant and he very quickly changed into someone I didn’t recognize – I was shamed, blamed and punished.

I struggled to sleep, work, socialize and thought the only way things would get better would be to terminate the pregnancy. I had an emotional breakdown and was referred to social services due to my emotional detachment from the baby raising concerns.

I ended the relationship romantically towards the end of my pregnancy, but his behaviour got worse. I received abusive messages and was smeared to his family and the social care professionals and finally received a family court summons.

I was scared to leave the house for fear of bumping into him. I was ashamed of being a single parent with a baby that I felt so unattached to.

The feeling that I would never be free from him or this nightmare was overwhelming, I thought there was only one way out and admitted to wanting to crash my car and didn’t want to leave my son behind. On professional advice I fled to a refuge with my 9 month old son.

Then I came across Melanie’s work, did a free webinar and purchased NARP straight away.

Two weeks into NARP I felt a newfound confidence in myself. I left the refuge as miraculously a friend offered me a house I could stay in for free with my son.

During the next 2 months, I began making decisions for myself and started to enjoy time with my son. Now less than a year doing NARP we continue to Thrive and I am so proud to be his Mum. Regardless of the court outcome I have freed myself and my son.

I never thought I could feel so much love, gratitude and peace. If I had to go through this all again to get here I absolutely would, but the beauty of NARP is that I never have to again. NARP truly saved my life and my soul."

MARTHA, UK

"So many of us (at any age) thought …"It’s too late for me". "I’ve lost too much to ever make a comeback", "My story is about just that"...

My narcissistic mother set the baseline for almost every other relationship in my life. Love was pain. Love was violent. Love was lies. Give and take meant that I give and they take. Love meant I would be abandoned, leaving me waiting for the proverbial other shoe to drop – and it always did.

When I came across a free Quanta Freedom Healing (QFH) session with Melanie, the results were so incredibly powerful and provided such an amazing amount of relief that it brought me to tears. Tears that ranged from the fear of facing my traumas to tears of joy from overcoming them.

I knew I had to buy the NARP Program, but instead of starting, something took over and the program just sat there staring back at me.

At 61 years of age, I was still stuck in the horrible dance with another narcissistic abuser. And when the discard exploded all over me yet again, I felt completely drained emotionally, confused and broken.

Plus, I had been diagnosed with severe Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA), an auto-immune disease, and it would flare up to almost intolerable levels.

Sick and tired of allowing this to keep happening in my life, and done with ineffective talk therapy, finally after two years, I said ENOUGH! Fast forward almost a year later and since committing to do the inner work with NARP, all the symptoms of RA, have either reduced tremendously or disappeared entirely.

These are the changes in my life from working with NARP:
• I now exist with a deep peace of mind, body and spirit.
• I have learned to self-love and self-soothe and have the courage to be me – the best me I can be.
• I was able to both forgive the narcissists in my life and forgive myself.
• There are no more narcissists or toxic people in my life, because I no longer accept their reality.
• I am not afraid to clearly identify and make my limits/boundaries known.
• I no longer feel hopelessly bound, consumed or controlled by my emotional baggage.

NARP has been 100% more effective for my healing from narcissistic abuse than years of counselling, talk therapy, self-help books and prescription medication. It has touched every part of my being – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

I have never been happier in my life.

My NARP package is one of, if not THE most cherished possession I own. I truly believe it saved my life. I just WISH I had known about this decades ago, as it took me until I was 61 to connect to my true life."

NANCY, USA

"I was born and raised in Latvia under the Soviet Regime. When I was 10 Latvia was in crisis. I was neglected by my parents and my family was so poor there were times I didn’t know if there would be food for me the next day, or a home to live in.

I was often left on my own from infancy, allowed to be bullied and abused. Not surprisingly I ended up in a controlling, emotionally abusive relationship believing it was normal.

In my teenage years, I got into a crazy, controlling religious sect that was also spiritually abusive, where I was trapped for 22 years!

After 14 years of marriage, it finally came to a divorce and I was so sick and thin, I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, depression, and anxiety. I turned to alcohol and medication to help numb the pain, extreme feelings of worthlessness, and then, three years after becoming a single parent to two amazing children, I had a nervous breakdown.

It was the beginning of 2017 and I felt worse than ever before. At home, I couldn’t function but forced myself to when my children were with me, but when they stayed with their father, I was in bed consumed with crippling fear and depression, feeling isolated and helpless.

During Mel’s free webinar I experienced my first Quanta Freedom Healing. The next morning, I actually felt a real release and an absence of the terrorizing fear and depression! I could not believe it!

I had a lot to heal such as body dysmorphia, panic attacks, having absolutely NO boundaries, extreme people-pleasing, so much fear I think I was afraid of my own shadow!

Very soon I was able to go to a shop and not have a panic attack or run back home. Within a few months, my children began to have a calm, happy mummy.

Three months after my co-workers were commenting on how much I had changed from this very anxious, nervous woman to someone with confidence and a smile.

Within 6 months I was able to come off medication that previously I couldn’t imagine being without.

I began to LOVE myself. Wow! Self-Partnering … Knowing I can survive without a man.

Eighteen months after starting NARP, I finally broke free of the religious sect, I also left my abusive workplace as I recognized my boss as a Narcissist. I trained in Reiki modalities and discovered I was psychically gifted and have been working on creating my own business!

I started meeting new, wonderful people, that I have been able to create real friendships with, being able to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ when I actually meant it.

I am 38 years young and have been a NARPer for about two and half years – and finally – I have just graduated on to the Empowered Self course! All I can say, it’s absolutely amazing!"

IEVA, UK

“My father and mother were both abusive as I was growing up. In an effort to cope with the painful feelings of being bad, wrong, unlovable and never good enough, I turned to drugs and alcohol at an early age of 13. I struggled with drugs until late into my 50’s.

Over the years I’ve been married four times, and each time was to somebody who was more abusive than the last. Each time I had to start life over again.

I felt deeply flawed and unworthy of love.

I went to therapy, anger management classes, 12-step programs, and church. I sought out medical help, guidance counselors and medication. But nothing worked except the drugs. They were my great escape. I became hopelessly addicted, which robbed me of any chance of a ‘normal’ life.

In 1995 husband number four started an unsuccessful business. Our house went into foreclosure, the electricity got shut off, and we had very little money for food. Unfortunately, he had access to my retirement savings of twenty-five years of employment. He used all of it leaving me with nothing.

I couldn’t eat and my kidneys were failing from the stress. Eventually, I left him and for six months I either lived in my car or slept on people’s couches. I kept using my drugs, and my mind was becoming more and more useless to me.

When he left the house I returned. I had nothing. I relied on government programs to help get me by. Eventually, I qualified for disability insurance.

I found Melanie’s work many years earlier, but now I began doing the full NARP program earnestly.

Positive results started happening from day one. I felt relief come over me from my very first NARP Module. I felt hope and an inner strength that I didn’t know I had.

Five years later, at 61, I am thrilled to report that I am completely drug-free and fully immersed now in health and fitness. I feel and look better than I have my entire life, and I am about to launch my very own online nutrition and exercise programs.

I am also in a relationship with a loving and caring man.

I raised both of my kids, now 43 and 32, as a single parent. I spent much of their life in their teenage and early adult years dealing with their drug addictions, as a result of their upbringing and their own feelings of worthlessness.

I believe as a result of my healing through NARP, my adult children are now in loving relationships of their own and parenting their own children, my grandchildren, from a place of love and with a whole-hearted commitment to their children. Seeing me find my own way, gave them permission to find theirs.

I know that NARP literally saved and gave me my life. It will yours, too.”

KARA, USA

"Several years ago I entered into a relationship with a man who seemed to be everything I had been looking for. By then, almost fifty years old, I felt like my time had come, that my prayers for a life partner were finally answered.

Solicitous, attentive, flattering and overwhelmingly charming, he held out the promise of the long term relationship that I had been praying for. Seven months later, confused by his behaviour and fed up with his unbridled disregard for me, I broke up with him.

I was one of the lucky ones, at only seven months I’d gotten out relatively quickly.

I didn’t know what had just happened to me, all I knew was that something had been terribly off in my “relationship” with the narcissist.

I spent days looking for a “cure.” I felt defeated, humiliated, angry and sad, yet utterly hooked on the man I had just left behind. It was a very confusing, emotionally tumultuous time.

My search for answers led me to Melanie and her Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP).

After my first NARP “shift” I had several more in quick succession. I felt myself breaking free from the heavy, soul-leaching spell of narcissistic abuse.

In six months I hardly thought about him at all, in a year all I would feel was complete indifference towards him. Two years later, I felt a deep gratitude for his playing his role so well that it brought me to where I am today.

Now, as a result of NARP and Quanta Freedom Healing, my outlook on life is far more expanded and far lighter than I could have ever imagined. I can now say with complete confidence that I am truly happy.

Melanie has given me the gift of self healing and self-love. Life and all its ups and downs need not get the better of me anymore.

Working NARP is not always easy, but this much I know – it works. The NARP path to healing is never predictable, but with patience, perseverance and a modicum of self-attention, it is inevitable."

ARNEL, USA

"Fifteen years ago I divorced after a 20-year marriage. We had four children, two homes, and a picturesque life. After two decades of “abuse” I changed the locks! Little did I know the storm that would follow.
The nightmare of my divorce led me to seek alternative healing. Five years later I began dating an old friend who was an abuser. After that I went another five years without dating.

Then, I met the ONE. We met touring the beautiful Sedona Red Rocks in Arizona. Soon after the “Love Bombing” began. There were romantic dinners, vacations, he asked me to quit my job, and began paying my bills.

I thought he was in love. Along with paying my bills came the spontaneous ‘let’s get away’ but I quickly saw the Jekyll-Hyde emerge.

I actually had a panic attack in the hotel room after he blew up on me for wanting to take a bubble bath before dinner. By now I was transitioning into my own business, totally dependent on him.

I asked a friend for a listening ear. She immediately said, “he’s a narcissist”.
Fast forward. I confronted him head on. He begs for another chance and I give in. But now the revenge is coming. OMG, that is the worst part. It came out like a torpedo seeking an enemy submarine.

After months of this I wanted to be free from his “CRAZY”. I needed another level of healing.

That’s when I found the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP). I made a detailed plan to escape. I went NO CONTACT.

I navigated out of a very destructive relationship quickly. NARP allowed me to heal the traumas that made me choose abusive partners to begin with.

Since beginning NARP my life has had a complete turnaround. The connection I feel to myself is remarkable. The presence and clarity is invigorating. I’m no longer second-guessing myself. I trust myself and I love co-parenting my inner child.

My business has taken off and I’m Thriving. I’m at the helm of my own ship.

Incredibly, these results are in less than 90 days.

Thank you Melanie for your vision. You are the Moses of the ones in bondage to the Narcissist slave master leading them to the Promised Land."

ELLIE, USA

"It’s a story with a different twist. My narcissistic abuse experience is about self-recovery – and it is also about how we CAN lay boundaries and ultimatums and be “willing to lose it all to get it all” in order to have people step up in our lives.

My name is Sheri and I am a Thriver.

I have attracted narcissistic relationships for most of my life, in part because I am an empath.

My codependent behaviours helped me navigate my life as a child, teenager and adult. Two people who are my closest family relationships reenacted their own narcissistic abuse with me.

The closest relationship I have in my life became narcissistically abusive long ago and after 30 years of crazy-making behaviour, it took its toll on my body, mind and spirit.

I was sick with myofascial pain syndrome, anxiety, panic attacks, agoraphobia and depression. I used alcohol, prescription pain meds, food addiction and religious serving to numb my emotional pain.

In December I was having a nervous breakdown. Something had to change and that had to be me. With the Quanta Freedom Healing webinar I had my first release of trauma from my body. It was such a physical and emotional relief that I became a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) Gold Member.

NARP gave me the tools to set clear boundaries for myself, to confront the narcissistic relationships in my life and request a change in behaviour.

My closest relationship has healed so much that this person is now aware of the narcissistic abuse they themselves experienced growing up.

By healing myself, I became my own soulmate and best friend and am able to give myself the life I’ve always wanted. I have forgiven the narcissistic people in my life and I am no longer a target for their toxicity – it just doesn’t work on me anymore and they know it.

Now, I am the healthiest I’ve ever been physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually!!

YOU are WORTH the healing that you so desire! Make the investment in your future self."

SHERI, USA

"Although I suspected I was dealing with one narcissist – my boss, it wasn’t until I started NARP that I realized that I actually had three of them in my life, including my spouse and a parent.

Melanie appeared as the right teacher at the right time in my life, and I don’t know how I would have gotten through this challenging period without NARP.

A year before I had hit my bottom. Although I had already left my spouse, I was depressed, more anxious, physically and emotionally exhausted.

I just wanted it all to stop, and I did not want to go on any longer. My support network helped me enough to not harm myself, but the depression and anxiety continued.

As soon as I started NARP, I felt the positive impacts almost immediately.
I struggled the most with the eBook on Forgiveness. I felt challenged to forgive the people who had hurt me in the past.

Self-forgiveness had the biggest impact on my healing. Every time I feel triggered I say, “I honor and bless this feeling, and as soon as I can I will shift, release and heal this trauma.”

As my divorce became ever more contentious and the other party tried to bully me ever harder, I relied heavily on the Module 8 healing: Release and Heal the Fear of the Narcissist and Whatever He or She May Do Next.

Before every hearing and whenever a divorce issue came up, I did multiple shifts from that Module. I developed such a sense of calm, knowing that I could stand up to any difficulty, that by the trial, I had no fear of what would happen. At that point, the other party suddenly decided to negotiate, and I won a fair, reasonable settlement.

After 18 months with NARP (and now moving through the Empowered Self Course), my life looks and feels completely different. I have moved to a lovely new home, found fulfilling work, and am pursuing some lifelong dreams. I am physically and emotionally fit and getting stronger every day. I am self-partnered, living authentically, and enjoying my Thriving life."

KATIE, USA

"I grew up in a narcissistic family in the dangerous inner-city, with all the things that come with that (neighborhood violence, gaslighting, love bombing, neglect).

I didn’t feel heard or seen; I felt awkward and out of place. There were no boundaries.

I had several breakdowns – in college, graduate school, and a few times in my 20s.

I tried meditation, yoga/spiritual retreats, spent thousands on therapy … I’d feel better for a while, but kept sliding back into feelings of inadequacy and self-criticism.

I developed a chronic, painful illness which cost me tens of thousands of dollars to treat – I could barely drive or walk, my hair fell out, I had migraines, and barely had the energy to get out of bed.

I did not have success in romance. All the romantic relationships I had in the past have been with narcissists.
NARP showed me my unresolved internal traumas. Deep down I believed there was something wrong with me despite my successes.

I started and stopped NARP before I finally committed to the program last year.

When you move into being a Thriver, narcissists often self-select themselves out of your existence!

Feeling free and unencumbered after my last unhealthy relationship, I eagerly resumed NARP. This time it worked.

In LESS THAN ONE YEAR post-narcissist, my life is taking off. I have an even deeper sense of inner peace and freedom – I can breathe!

The dark cloud floating over my head my whole life has disappeared! I moved into a town home, made new friends, enjoy financial success, got a raise and an award at work, and am debt-free.

I’m a power lifter and have set new personal records, and even built a gym at home.

I’m grateful that I got serious about this journey in my mid-30s, and am looking forward to living the rest of my life the Thriver way. It’s so liberating!

I am now working through the Empowered Self Course. Healing is a work in progress.

To those considering NARP – you CAN do this. You will swim against the tide and not follow the herd, because NARP is a revolutionary way of being and thinking.

But the payoff is HUGE."

TONYA, USA